On Marriage and Family Life

1. What to me defines success as a wife? As a mother? As a provider?
2. What are my unspoken rules and expectations?
3. What are things I want to have in common with my husband? (i.e. What activities do I want to be able to share with him?)
4. What roles do I expect to play in my marriage? What roles do I expect to definitely not have to play?
5. What do I expect to gain from marriage?
6. What might I have to sacrifice in order to gain what I want to gain from marriage, and am I willing to make those sacrifices?
   
7. How important is “meaningful touch” to me? Am I a high contact person or a low contact person?